What is endurance?
Defined it is "the
fact or power of enduring an unpleasant or difficult process or situation
without giving way."
That sums up my
experience lately of working through "road blocks" toward the goal of
Cycling X-country. I go through daily mental
gyrations and doubts about this whole process.
The least of my worries is training on the bicycle for my goal. What has been making me wake screaming at
night and causing panic attacks is sharing my experience of PTSD with
people. It has reopened Pandora's Box of
nightmares, sort of a catch 22 in this process of bringing awareness to
PTSD. I was perfectly happy having come
to a place of peace in my life, not really feeling a need to revisit my past. Now, with awareness-bringing being part of
the fundraising process, I am re-experiencing some of the symptoms of
PTSD. Great :-(
So, riddled
with doubts about how to proceed, I'm just taking it one day at a time. Yesterday, I deleted the donation button on
my blog because I was emotionally done with fundraising. Today, I'm considering putting it back on. I feel confused.
Another "road block" I've encountered is not being able to get more than a month off work – the ride is two months across the Southern Tier of the
So, maybe the
road blocks will also have a detour sign that will lead me to my destination,
just not via the route I originally thought.
Or it might take me to a new destination that is unexpectedly
wonderful. We'll just have to see.